Friday, April 09, 2010

Non-Refundable

What were they thinking?
Friday April 9, 2010
Adoption freeze urged after boy returned to Russia
By NATALIYA VASILYEVA

MOSCOW
Russia should freeze all child adoptions with U.S. families, the country's foreign minister urged Friday after an American woman allegedly put her 8-year-old adopted Russian son on a one-way flight back to his homeland.

Artyom Savelyev arrived in Moscow unaccompanied on a United Airlines flight Thursday from Washington, the Kremlin children's rights office said Friday.

The children's office said the boy, whose adoptive name is Justin Hansen, was carrying a letter from his adoptive mother, Torry Hansen of Shelbyville, Tennessee, saying she was returning him due to severe psychological problems.

"This child is mentally unstable. He is violent and has severe psychopathic issues," the letter said, according to Russian officials, who sent what they said was a copy of the letter to The Associated Press. The authenticity of the letter could not be independently verified.
The U.S. ambassador to Russia, John Beyrle, said he was "deeply shocked by the news" and "very angry that any family would act so callously toward a child that they had legally adopted."
The boy is now in the hospital in northern Moscow for a checkup, Anna Orlova, spokeswoman for Kremlin's Children Rights Commissioner Pavel Astakhov, told The Associated Press.
Orlova, who visited Savelyev on Friday, said the child reported that his mother was "bad," "did not love him," and used to pull his hair.

Savelyev was adopted late September last year from the town of Partizansk in Russia's Far East.
He turned up at the door of the Russian Education and Science Ministry on Thursday afternoon accompanied by a Russian man who had been hired by Savelyev's adopted grandmother to pick him up from the airport, according to the ministry. The chaperone handed over the boy and his documents, and then left, officials said.

The education minister said later Friday that it had decided to suspended the license of World Association for Children and Parents -- a Renton, Washington-based agency that processed Savelyev's adoption -- for the duration of the probe.

Foreign Minister Sergey Lavrov said in televised remarks that the ministry would recommend that the U.S. and Russia hammer out an agreement before any new adoptions are allowed.
"We have taken the decision ... to suggest a freeze on any adoptions to American families until Russia and the USA sign an international agreement" on the conditions for adoptions and the obligations of host families, Lavrov was quoted as saying.
Lavrov said the U.S. had refused to negotiate such an accord in the past but "the recent event was the last straw."

Last year, nearly 1,600 Russian children were adopted in the United States, according to Tatyana Yakovleva of the ruling United Russia party.
Rob Johnson, a spokesman for the Tennessee Department of Children's Services, said the agency is looking into the allegations, although they do not handle international adoptions.
Torry Ann Hansen is listed as a licensed registered nurse in Shelbyville, Tenn., according to the Tennessee Department of Health's Web site. No work address is listed.
Her name appears in a list of August 2007 graduates from Middle Tennessee State University in Murfreesboro, Tenn., with a Masters of Science in Nursing degree.
United Airlines allows unaccompanied children as young as 5 years old on direct flights. Children age 8 and above can catch connecting flights, as well. A United spokesperson wasn't immediately available to comment.
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Associated Press writer Kristin Hall in Nashville, Tennessee, and Joshua Freed in Minneapolis contributed to this report.

7 comments:

Debby said...

Unbelievable. Poor child. Wonder what will happen next.
What a shame to punish others that are trying to adopt. I know a couple that has been waiting two years to adopt from Russia.
I understand how hard it can be to get mental help for a child. But if they had enough money to fly him and an attorney to Russia it seems like they could have done something else.
((((HUGS)))) to you on your former post.

Nadia said...

my only comment is please don't believe everything you read/hear..we do NOT have the whole story from both sides and we don't truly know what was going on. Imagine being in severe crisis mode and you can't get help...

Momto15 said...

Good point Nadia.
We don't know the whole story.

Life in Fitzville said...

I'd like to hear the whole story. It does sound pretty horrific. If a parent put a biological child on a plane, they would be arrested pretty quickly.

Anonymous said...

I want to know and demand to know why these parents have not been charged with abandonment and endangerment of a minor child?

If someone did this to their biological child, they would be behind bars as we debate this.

Instead, its a "we don't know if a crime has been committed"... What the hell?!?!

Debby said...

Me again. I saw the little boy on TV. He is so young, actually my oldest granddaughter's age. He must be confused. Sorry, it wasn't an attorney they hired to take him to the embassy or wherever it was.
Nadia you are so right that there are two sides to the story. I have been in that crisis mode and it is terrible when you can't get help and are desperate.

Anonymous said...

My first reaction to this was outrage, but there is a great deal of FAS and post-institutionalized behaviors in Russian adoptees. These children enter these Russian orphanages, and are not treated for FAS. If not treated, FAS may lead to such secondary disabilities as emotional/behavioral disorders (e.g.: PTSD, depression or conduct disorder). Also, we don't know the extent of the damage done INSIDE the walls of the orphanage itself!

If this serious, lifelong disorder is not disclosed to a family, and the family is not ready to take that on, it can be DEVASTATING.

I believe this woman went into the adoption with the best of intentions, but felt overwhelmed, lied to and misled. (The child's behavior sounded pretty severe, so how could the director and staff at the the orphanage NOT see it?!!)

Remember, unlike children who are placed into families from the U.S. foster care system, there are NO services or respite provided for families who adopt internationally. There are few options for these families.

I wish she had tried to re-home the child with a family who was willing/ready to take it on. I am not sure why she chose to fly him back to Russia. He won't get the services, attention, or love he will need there. But really, I don't know what she did/didn't try before making that decision.

However, we all have a tipping point. What would yours be? Injuries to other children in the home? Injuries or even death to your animals? Sleepless nights because you worry he may burn the house down at night? Just about any of those things would do it for me.

It is pretty easy for the Russians to blame this woman, but really they have an orphan crisis, and a big problem with FAS within their borders. Time for those living in glass houses to stop throwing stones.

My 2 cents.

Love ya,
K : )