
I was trying to decide if I should title this post:
1. God's true test of how much one person can take
2. Sick, Sick, and sicker
But
3. Can I get a sip of that? was the big winner
Nina:
My sister always gives all her sips away. Any meandering hand that might reach for a sip, she hands over her cup and allows whomever to drink from it.
This is how her life has been for weeks now. And I admit whole hearted that I have been right there in line taking sips. Nina is my rock, I am the liquid and despite her sip giving, she is my solid. She always has five minutes to run this or that errand and never complains to me even when my day has been long and I am being a grouch. Well yesterday Nina ran out of sips to give. She woke up at 4:30am with chest pain. After calling her doctor and making an appointment, she left for work. One of two jobs that she was planning to do yesterday (along with feeding and caring for her horse, and two children, hubby was out of town with work)... at 11am she went to the doc and had a bad EKG. Some nitro glycerine, asprin and an ambulance to the ER later... I found her laying in a hospital bed being poked and pricked and prodded. A 2nd EKG looked normal... MRI questionable... Cardiac intensive care for the night it was for Nina. Nina is 40, healthy, non-smoker, not overweight... why was this happening? They put her on heparin for the night and waited to see how she would do. At this point the panic set in. Why were they keeping her in ICU if they "thought" she was ok?
This morning she had a stress test and another MRI. She did so well on her stress test that they discharged her from the hospital with the warning to take it easy, and de-stress her life as much as possible. I am not sure that they can pinpoint exactly what was causing her chest pain and numb arm, but her chest feels better now, and they know she didn't have a heart attack. Please keep Nina in your prayers, I know that this was a wake up call for her and maybe God was just throwing out the warning note that she needs to stop giving all her sips away all the time.
Christella:
Ella finished her Bactrim and two days later, once again, got a fever. I emailed with Dr. A. and Lori to try to figure out what to do. She just had an on and off low grade fever earlier in the week. So with the help of "B" the spina bifida nurse, and Dr. T. (the local doc), we were able to execute Dr. A's plan to put Ella on a intermittent catheritization plan. It is thought that since Ella keeps having UTI's/Bladder infections, she is not fully emptying her bladder. So every 3-4 hours we have to put in a catheter and let it drain. This was an enormous worry because A. I am not really sure where the urethra is :) and B. How will her parents be able to manage all this in Haiti? (It's "clean", not "sterile"... but still... you need clean water and time and training of sorts.)
So we figured out how to do it, where to buy supplies, got them ordered and here, then figured out how we were going to get enough stuff back with us to Haiti etc. Then we had to find her urethra... we ran back and forth from the bathroom to the computer to look at the diagram. The first time was really tricky and it's been smooth sailing since then.
So with the cathing and with a daily dose of prophylactic antibiotic, we thought that we would be able to keep her healthy and clear up some of the troubles that she is having.
Happy Birthday Christella!
Yesterday Ella had her first birthday. Not a good day between my sister and her fever, it was more of a struggle then a celebration. At 10pm her fever was 105 and I was about to panic. Bob and I pushed fluids and some motrin and monitored her to make sure that she didn't start having febrile seizures. It was a Friday night and what else could we do?
The fever went down fairly fast and this morning was only 101 (8 hour later without more meds)... but I was feeling SO unsettled and uneasy. How can I take her back to Haiti being so sick without all the answers? Well I just can't!
So this morning we went to Urgent Care and gave all the long and involved medical history and after a urine sample, it was determined that she definitely has an infection. They sent more urine out for a 2 day culture, but feel that the bacteria is resistant to the Bactrim she has been on. They said given her high fevers, she liked has a kidney infection. (So it spread from her UT, to her Bladder to her kidneys.)
The Urgent care Doctor asked me FOUR times when I was planning to take her back to Haiti (we are getting really close) and with my reply he just stared for a minute and rolled his eyes.
Please Lord let Ella be fever free and ready to travel ASAP!!! I want her to be healthy when I give her to her Mama!!
D.A.:
D.A. is a little girl, well not so little but a 12 year old girl that I care for. I am not going to be able to go into too much details right now but she lives with her single dad and is having a HARD time in life. She has been exposed to way too much at her young age and acts out (not when she's here but at school and her dad's) and got suspended indefinitely from school last week. Given that I am leaving SOON and not able to "share my sips" adequately right now, today was the last day until I am back and settled that I can care for D.A. I am not sure what her dad is going to do, and I pray that her counselor is able to get her back in school soon.
Wondering about my sip:
*(Always have to think of me!)*
So while I was away on my travels my sister was supposed to be here with my children. My husband is home but gone 12 hours per day or longer at work. (M-F, sometimes Sat.) Given that the good "money making" time is about over with the weather for his job, and things are about to get "tighter" here. Now is not a good time for him to miss work, but if he has to, we will work it out. I can't heap my life on my sister right now, so we are praying that my Mom is able to fly in from Ohio maybe a day or two after I leave. My Mom is really good about not sharing "sips" though. LOL (NOT in a bad way, in a... "her children need to learn to take care of themselves better" sort of way.) But I hope she can share some sips right now. :)
So hopefully it will all work out that my Mom and her dog "Sasha" will be here to help out. Or else we will resort to plan B. (Begging friends and neighbors for assistance.)
I just don't like feeling as if a red, waving flag telling me that this trip isn't a good idea. So maybe from here on out the packing and settling and rest of the planning that should have taken place over the past week, will take place, without any more glitches, illnesses, hospitalizations etc. Ok?
Done.
Sarah
P.S. Cute picture of Kylie (kims daughter) and Lulu from the circus. :)